They always told you letting go of your first love was the hardest thing you’ll have to do. That it will kill you inside. And they were right. But what they didn’t tell you was how good it would feel when you are finally over them, and are able to laugh when you hear their name, rather than become upset. They didn’t tell you would no longer have to fear anyone hurting you, because you’ve already been through the worst. They didn’t describe to you the feeling of joy when you can finally walk past them and give them a smile while feeling good about yourself; because you’ve finally accepted who you can become without them in your life. Letting go of a part of who you were is difficult, there’s no sugar coating that. But when you can finally accept your new self without them, that- that is one of the best feelings in the world. And everyone deserves to feel that.
this post is for anyone who feels a little lost right now. maybe you don’t know what your path in life is yet. maybe you hate your job. maybe you’re still in school and you’ve changed your major three times. maybe you’re confused about what it is that you want. maybe you know exactly what you want but have no idea how to get it.
you will figure it out. you are not dead yet. you are going to figure your shit out. i believe in you.
